I used to be Pagan, and I frequently encountered women-only spaces, such as rituals, classes, and support groups that only permitted women to attend. I hated these and eventually stopped going to any. I feel very uncomfortable with the idea that there are some areas where it’s valuable to exclude half the population. I question [...]

I use the word “lame” as my catch-all, throwaway, casual insult whenever something seems silly orĀ  distasteful to me. The primary definition of lame is related to physical disability. I’ve recently begun to worry that my constant use of the word reflects a mentality I don’t want to perpetuate.
In the same vien as sexism, racism, [...]